Hi there, designer 👋
Well, we’re at the last month of this year! Phew - I’m so ready to put this one behind...
I don’t know if you can relate, but this has been one of the most difficult years I can remember - it felt like no matter how much I planned or poured in, something always went sideways...
So this month, I’ve been reflecting on a theme that keeps coming up in my work and conversations with other designers…
When "above and beyond" becomes too much
This week on the blog, I shared a very personal story about a bathroom renovation project that taught me a painful (but necessary) lesson about boundaries.
It started as a dream project with clients I adored. But as time went on, the project stretched further and further - and I found myself saying yes to everything: vendor chaos, unpaid hours, constant re-selections, and emotional labor that left me drained.
At some point, I had to ask myself: At what cost to me?
That’s when I finally drew the line - not because I didn’t care, but because I had to protect my time, energy, and peace.
It wasn’t easy, but it was the start of reclaiming joy in my work again.
Here’s what I learned
You are allowed to stop.
You are allowed to say, this is enough.
You are allowed to protect your creativity, your energy, and your worth and your business.
Scope isn’t the enemy - it’s the foundation of respect.
Not every client will see your effort - but the right ones will.
And done is a gift, too.
If you’ve been feeling stretched thin or underappreciated lately, I hope this reminder lands softly with you: You are not alone.
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Before You Go
In my newsletter, I love sharing not only design and digital workflow tips, but also the real side of running a design business - the lessons, pivots, and mindset shifts that shape our careers.
If that sounds like your cup of tea, you’re in the right place.
Here’s to finishing this year with grace and entering 2026 lighter, clearer, and stronger.
With warmth,
Ana 🌸
Interior Design Den
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